<![CDATA[The Well Loft - Ava's Blog]]>Wed, 23 May 2012 12:31:10 -0500Weebly<![CDATA[Want to be Drama Free? Recognize the signs!]]>Fri, 13 Apr 2012 10:16:42 -0500http://www.thewellloft.com/2/post/2012/04/want-to-be-drama-free-recognize-the-signs.htmlThis month as a way to stay drama free...I thought I'd share with you an article about introspective rationalization.  You may recognize your own symptoms and apply the solutions. Enjoy!

HALT-I (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired, Inactive)

By Nina Sherak

Warning Danger ahead

Ever spend time around a 6 year old who is tired, angry, hungry, lonely, or confined too long in one place? (you have my sympathies). It is loud and messy to the highest degree.  That 6‑year old reverts to very childish and destructive behavior.  Same goes for us as adults. When we are too Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired, or Inactive (HALT-I) and do not address these needs, our inner strength and well-being starts getting shaky and we meltdown!  Being in any one of these states is a flashing red warning light that you are not on your best game and at risk of jeopardizing goals and behaviors you worked hard to change.  It is not good. You now have been warned.

Self assessment scan

Whenever you feel out of sorts, or notice that you are doing or saying things that feel crummy and undermine your goals the first quick thing to ask yourself, (and do it quickly before things spiral downward) is a scan of HALT-I,

Right now am I hungry, angry, tired, lonely, or inactive?

What need is calling out to be addressed?

Now that you have identified the need,

Take immediate recovery action

  • Hungry: Grab something with protein in the mix. Not empty calories like pretzels or chips or crackers, or candy.The vending machine is rarely your friend. Walk on by.
  • Angry: Change your focus quick. Count to 10, take 5 deep breaths, or take a walk in nature. Engage your senses to buy you time by really zoning in on something else in the immediate surroundings like the chair you are sitting on, how it feels, the color, the height, etc. Diffuse an emotional trainwreck by imagining the people you are mad at with party hats on.  Use affirmations that soothe you, such as “I am not going to take this personally.” Or, “This too shall pass.”  
  • Lonely: Make a call, write a note, pull up a comforting memory. The key here is to focus on something positive.
  • Tired: Take a quick cat nap, breathe deeply, get fresh air.
  • Inactive: Stand up and stretch. Clench and relax muscles in your arms, hands, legs, feet to get the blood flowing.
Gathering ammo

Learning from past misery, parents end up taking preventive measures to protect their 6‑year old (and themselves) from potential melt downs. They plan the day ahead. They make sure their child has enough sleep before a busy day ahead and pack snacks the night before, they plan some kind of physical activity into the day to give an outlet for their kids energy, and plan play dates for socializing with other kids (and grown up socializing time for the parents).

So can you do to protect yourself from slipping into old behaviors? If you have worked hard to make a positive change in your life you owe it to yourself to protect all that great work you have done.

What protective steps can you take?

  • Hunger: How about the putting aside an apple and almonds or some carrot sticks to carry in your bag during the day in case you get the munchies. Better yet, take time on Sundays to plan and prepare meals ahead as much as possible.
  • Anger: Before heading into trying situations or even before even just getting out of bed in the morning take time for reading, music, prayer, meditation, exercise, or whatever routine helps you feel centered and strong and expecting the best from the day ahead. When you take time to focus within first thing in your day, somehow your base strengthens and no matter how much winds blow into your sails, your boat sways easily but does not tip. And you find it much easier to enjoy the ride, big waves and little waves alike.
  • Lonely: People need people. Look at your week ahead and make sure you have planned time for connecting to those who make you feel happy. Perhaps scheduling reading time with your child? Or a date night with your spouse? Or weekly yoga class and coffee with a friend? Sunday phone calls to your parents? Plan ahead.
  • Tired: Cranky people do not think straight and are unpleasant to be around. Don’t be one of them.  Do you need 8 hours sleep?  Are you trying to get by on 6?  Figure out what time you need to go to bed to get the amount of sleep you need. That time is now your target time to be in bed with all electronics off.  Sleep deprivation is not something to be admired. Exhausting yourself by burning candles at both ends is just a form of self abuse. Sorry to be so harsh, but our society seems to reward exhaustion.
  • Inactive: You have to move. Not just in and out of your car. Moving that involves arms, legs and sweating. There is no greater fountain of youth than exercise. Pick something that appeals to you and find a way to make it part of your regular routine. Walk, run, bike, pole dance, Zumba, swim, conduct music. Move at least 20 minutes breaking a sweat 3 times a week.  Add some resistance training into your week 2 or 3 times and your joints, muscles and bones will reward you beyond measure. If you are an office drone make sure you stand up at least every 2 hours, you can set an alarm reminder into your calendar.
Plan ahead to take care of you

You have worked hard to eat clean, to work out regularly, balance your life, and to surround yourself with those who support your goals. Don’t throw it all away with one off kilter moment that cascades into a total meltdown.  Plan ahead to protect all your hard work.

Pobodies Nerfect. No matter what, remember success is not falling down; success is just getting up more times than you fall.

]]><![CDATA[March into Spring with a brand New Attitude and a Fitness Plan that Delivers!]]>Mon, 12 Mar 2012 12:05:57 -0500http://www.thewellloft.com/2/post/2012/03/march-into-spring.htmlMarch (well most times April) is the time of year when the weather starts to become milder and the colors in the sky brighten and the ground begins to give way to buds and blossoms. Spring is soon approaching and March (at least this March) seems to be giving way to all things colorful and warm. This time of year also alerts people that warmer weather is coming and that they should get into shape to look good for summer! If you are one of those people that need a jump start into fitness as we head into arm, leg and back baring weather, do not fret...I have a suggestion on how to plan a time sensitive regimen just for you.

First- Answer the 4 W's
Before even thinking about starting that hot yoga class or boot camp burnout session...answer the following questions. Why, Where, What and When? I suggest writing the answers down so that you can refer back to them and then take at least a day of mental planning before you begin. These answers will ultimately help you to discover your overall goal.

Why?  Think of why you want to work out. Is it for health? To simply look good or for both?

Where? Where are you going to work out? Will it be at the gym, a studio, outdoors, or at home?

What? What type of class, or regimen will you use? Will it be kickboxing for cardio, walking on a treadmill or a strength building class?

When? When are you going to work out...what day, dates and times?

Once you have those questions thoroughly answered then you are ready to plan out your regimen using measured fitness steps to start to obtain your goals.

Second - Make a measured plan
Your regimen should be measured with steps that can help you find small yet immediate results within the fitness level you are starting out with... not the one you are attempting to reach. In other words, it needs to be challenging but appropriate for your current fitness level. For instance, if you are not used to running but your goal is to ultimately become a marathon runner then you might want to start off with aerobic walking. Then a week or two later add in a faster paced walk with a few intervals of jogging for 30 seconds to one minute at a time. This will help you burn fat and increase your stamina all at the same time. If done consistently your immediate results will be greater lung capacity and a weekly source of fat burning. Each week increase your running time another 10-15%. Do this consistently at least 4 days a week and over time (less than 9 weeks) you'll be fully running and realizing your goal!

If it's a strength or flexibility format you are looking for the principles of planning remain the same. Research a class or exercise method you would like to try. Find out the level of class or the equipment that is appropriate for you and commit to trying. In no time if you are consistent and if you like it and if the class is run well or the method you are using keeps you safe you will see results in about 6-8 weeks. Measured steps are your path to goal obtainment.

Third- Putting it all together
This answering and planning system is respectfully called a strategy and it  can be used for any sort of goal that you may have. So map out a strategy and plan your goal today and then let me know how it goes!
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]]><![CDATA[Take Heart It's the Month of LOVE!]]>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 11:27:24 -0500http://www.thewellloft.com/2/post/2012/02/take-heart-its-the-month-of-love.htmlFebruary is the month of LOVE!   February is also the month of Heart Disease Awareness. Since matters of the heart are highly celebrated during this month I figured it was only fitting to share with you a few tips on how to take good care of your heart and the hearts of those around you!

1) Eat heart friendly foods and avoid high levels of saturated fats.
Put Plain and Simple...  Eat these heart friendly foods 3-4 times a week; omega 3 fish like salmon and tilapia, fresh fruits and leafy vegetables. Limit these saturated fat foods such as; heavy cheese, whole milk, red meat and butter. Do not eat these everyday only have in moderation a day or two a week.

2) Get weekly exercise and measure your waist line periodically!
Put Plain and Simple... Do some type of cardiovascular exercise 3-5 times a week. Start out slow with 20 minutes and build up to 30-40 minutes. Make sure you pick an activity that you enjoy!  Exercise and healthy eating together can reduce your waist line. If most of your fat is around your waist rather than at your hips, you’re at a higher risk for heart disease and type 2 diabetes. This risk goes up with a waist size that is greater than 35 inches for women or greater than 40 inches for men.

3) De Stress!!!
Use mediation, read a good book, spend time with friends/family, or do anything you enjoy. Put Plain and Simple... Make time for yourself to enjoy your life! Do this at least once a week.

4) Volunteer!
Put Plain and Simple ... doing something for someone else's heart helps your heart as well as helps to make our planet a better, happier home where people work together to make life easier for all.

5) Live Smoke-Free: Avoid smoking and/or avoid secondhand smoke.
Put Plain and Simple ... Although quitting smoking is oh so hard; quitting smoking has immediate and long-term benefits that begin only 20 minutes after smoking your last cigarette. The positive changes that develop in a smoke-free body continue for years after that last inhale!
References: http://www.healthywomen.org/content/blog-entry/heart-disease-awareness-month   http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/heart-healthy-diet/NU00196 http://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health/public/heart/obesity/lose_wt/risk.htm

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]]><![CDATA[Only 3 Weeks Into the New Year...and I'm learning how to keep on learning.]]>Wed, 18 Jan 2012 15:21:34 -0500http://www.thewellloft.com/2/post/2012/01/only-3-weeks-into-the-new-yearand-im-learning-how-to-keep-on-learning.htmlOkay so it's the third week into the new year and I have officially settled into it. I'm watching my nutrition (not as well as I'd like, but watching it) and I am cross training between core work outs, indoor treadmill running and outdoor walking/jogging. Business is better and I am happy.  I am happy largely because I am learning how to keep on learning.  You know that saying "You learn something new each day?" Well that rings so true. If you stop and pay attention and live in each moment  with conscious awareness that you are a human that has flaws and makes mistakes, than you can embrace learning and began to grow from it. Each new lesson learned can broaden who you are as a person. These are some things that I have learned so far this year:
  • Comparing myself to others is time spent wasted.
  • Your best friends may not always take your side even when you think they should.
  • What you think may be encouragement to others may be discouragement in their eyes.
  • Communication sets you free and honesty is the key to it.
  • People are attracted to negativity only because they crave positivity.
  • I will never receive everyone's full approval because I will always offend someone.
  • Sometimes a judgement is a judgement in the disguise of an opinion.
  • Perception is everything yet nothing.
  • Running a smart business is an art.
  • Ignorance is not bliss...turning the other cheek to it is.
Wow...all of this and its only January 18th! I wonder what else is in store for me? Feel free to comment on the lessons you have learned in this early 2012...I'd love to read them as well as read how your resolutions are going.

Smiles,

Ava



]]><![CDATA[It's Not Over Until the Fattest Lady (excuse me, Diva) Endorses!]]>Tue, 03 Jan 2012 10:02:16 -0500http://www.thewellloft.com/2/post/2012/01/post-title-click-and-type-to-edit.htmlWhat does Mariah Carey, Janet Jackson, Marie Osmond, and Jennifer Hudson all have in common? Besides being big Hollywood stars and "A" list divas of song? They have all claimed they were fat and lost weight with their recently endorsed national weight loss products. Let's pick them each apart:

Mariah Carey has recently signed up with Jenny Craig and is now claiming her 70lb weight loss from her twins is directly associated and a result of Jenny Craig.

Janet Jackson has signed onto Nutrisystem with her "Get on it" slogan, pitching that she has finally found a system made just for her. Marie Osmond is another Nutrisystem alum but her slogan is a bit older "Lose it and learn to keep it off" is her tagline. I guess there wasn't enough long term confidence in Janet to give her that slogan so they had to come up with something new.

Finally we have the biggest weight loss success diva of them all, Ms. Jennifer Hudson singing her ever so loud and endless siren of "It's a new day, a new life and I'm feeling gooooood!" claiming that Weight Watchers was her saving grace.

Now I'm not saying that these divas don't have any merit or that the products they are endorsing do not work. They in fact do! However, did they really need to buy into a packaged system to make things work from themselves or did they need to buy into the accountability of eating good, wholesome food at the right time and in the right amounts? Basically isn't that what each of them are doing and what each of these products advocate?

So, ladies and gents before you run out and spend oodles of money on the next box of cookies that are supposedly made "just for you" but are actually cut from the same cookie cutters as every other one, just pick up a pen and a notebook and follow this nutritional plan from me for free!

Click here for the plan and how it works!
Let me know if you plan on following this and if you have any questions. I myself will be updating my own successes here at this blog!
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Mariah in her recent Jenny Craig ad. Who shows their midriff anymore? I'm not hating I''m just saying!
]]><![CDATA[Becoming a Good Example...all over again!]]>Mon, 26 Dec 2011 09:23:44 -0500http://www.thewellloft.com/2/post/2011/12/becoming-a-good-exampleall-over-again.htmlOkay so we are getting close to the end of the year. That usually means a fresh start for us all in some sort of way. Maybe for you it's a financial new start, maybe for others it's a fitness re-start. For me, it's always a nutrition do over. I must admit I have never been great at watching my calories and the things that I place into my mouth. People just naturally assume because I am a fitness professional that the nutritional thing goes hand in hand with my job. I mean it does but I too am not perfect. I admit to having a sweets and pastry addiction as well as an extreme pizza craving appetite. I could literally eat pizza every day. Anyway, usually at this time of the year I take inventory on my daily diet and decide to make improvements upon it.

Improvements for me involve a journal and a pen. I generally write all of my food choices down as well as the calorie counts and the time in which I ate. I try to eat 5-6 small meals  including snacks every 3 hours totaling about 1,400 - 1,500 calories per day. This is tedious, not fun and not very sexy, but it's the only way for me to be honest with myself (and others) about what it is that I am eating or not eating. So I will begin my journal of meals, calorie counts and times on Monday, January 2nd.
]]><![CDATA[2012...Nothing is Impossible!]]>Mon, 19 Dec 2011 17:47:37 -0500http://www.thewellloft.com/2/post/2011/12/2012nothing-is-impossible.htmlHello there,

I have been moving and shaking and just going non-stop for the last two years. I have opened and unfortunately closed a fitness studio in Germantown, I have had a baby in 2010 and gave birth to a new fitness studio baby in Manayunk! I am exhausted. Some may feel like it's time for me to relax, take it slow and maybe even give up. Not me...2012 is my year of possibilities...for me nothing is impossible.

I have been reading a blog called The Blog of Impossible Things by Joel Runyan, It's a blog about things that one may feel that they would or can't do in their lifetime like run a marathon or complete a triathlon. This blog makes the impossible feel possible by motivating one to change their outlook and attitude. One of his writings was just about not being nice, that nice people don't get anywhere. I can sometimes attest to that although being nice is an art form of itself...nice people do not always finish last. So, I don't take everything to heart in this blog but I do chew on the good stuff and swallow everything else.

Check it out and Happy New Year!
Blog of Impossible things

Ava


]]><![CDATA[The Journey of Sunday Yoga Soul]]>Fri, 16 Sep 2011 09:47:25 -0500http://www.thewellloft.com/2/post/2011/09/the-journey-of-sunday-yoga-soul.htmlA YOGA BLOG

The Journey of  Sunday Yoga Soul
by Jamila K. Wilson

There is little separation between soul music (rhythm and blues) and spirituals; it is literally one in the same. It is derived from the same origin within the core of Africans transported to the Americas.

This music is the memory of that passage; of that struggle through the terrain, to the dungeons, on to the sandy beaches, into the bowels, across the raging waters, amongst the stench of death, hearing the wailing cries, blindly walking upon the shores of this once sacred land now desecrated by greed. And in that music lives the faith of knowing peace and justice can, and will, prevail.

The sorrow song, soul song, spiritual song of the African transported to America is where we reside. It is the safe haven of our ancestors' collective spirits. It is a song that cannot be replicated by anyone else. You can hear the very distinct difference of voice, tone, reverence, and emotion when sung by someone other than the ones who spirits crossed those seas just a few short years ago. Their renditions of these soulful songs are just standard and customary. For them it is a process by which to praise or acknowledge a lover.

But to the African in the Americas the soul/spiritual song represents our existence. It is more than a show or performance; it is the remembrance and storehouse of our humanity. These songs represent the promise of return; a return to a time and place where we were defined by world humanity, not as chattel, but as human beings. When the voices sung "swing low sweet chariot, coming forth to carry me home" you can feel the tremors of the soul seeking refuge in a promised land. You experience the depth of their need to grasp a reality that they can only envision in their nightly dreams. You can know through that song that hope is more than an abstract perception, but a “faith in the ultimate justice of things... (where) men will judge men by their souls and not by their skins…”

Dr. W.E.B. DuBois writes eloquently in The Souls of Black Folks that the sorrow (spiritual) song “…stands today not simply as the sole American music, but as the most beautiful expression of the human experience born this side of the seas.  It has been neglected, it has been, and is, half despised, and above all it has been persistently mistaken and misunderstood; but notwithstanding, it still remains as the singular spiritual heritage of the nation and the greatest gift of the Negro people.”

It is through this gift that I share the offering of yoga, Sunday Yoga Soul.  During this practice, the sound of soul music will serve as the vehicle to liberation and truth, using the power of the breath to open you up to the unlimited possibilities of your ordained purpose. I invite you to join me in celebrating not just this music, but celebrating you, a recipient and benefactor of this legacy, unlocking the wisdom of yoga for your liberation. 

Sunday Yoga Soul welcomes all people and is every 4th Sunday of the month at The Well Loft located at 6143 Germantown Ave, loft #101 (enter off Pastorius St.); for more information and to RSVP go to www.thewellloft.com.

I look forward to seeing you there,
Ase. Namaste. ]]><![CDATA[Colorful celebrations of the harvest of golds, oranges, reds and browns.]]>Fri, 02 Sep 2011 12:07:44 -0500http://www.thewellloft.com/2/post/2011/09/colorful-celebrations-of-the-harvest-of-golds-oranges-reds-and-browns.htmlHello there,
As the dog days of summer slowly come to an end and a new time and season begins... we gradually step away from the hazy, lazy days of sun to the crisp and cool autumn air. The fall brings about the upcoming holidays and brings to vision the colorful celebrations of the harvest of golds, oranges, reds and browns.

As we change seasons The Well Loft changes too..It's been a long time coming, however with change a newness presents itself...read more below about our upcoming autumn changes!

So what's new?
It's so hard to say goodbye, but we must finally say farewell to our indoor cycling program. Unfortunately, these classes have always had low attendance and because of that they have not made it into our fall class schedule.

In light of this decision to cancel out the indoor cycling program we will replace our bikes with small group training equipment. We have ordered new professional grade stability balls and BPA free vinyl coated 3lb dumbbells. We have ordered enough equipment to give the first 10 clients (that reserve for classes in advance) a small group training class at a fraction of the cost of what you would pay for one-on-one personal training. We will offer these classes three times a week. Our schedule will start with an upper body strength class on Tuesdays at 6pm and a lower body strength class on Wednesday's at 6pm. Our signature Interval Strength class (now called Interval Cardio strength), combining both upper and lower body work will be on Thursday's at 6pm.

Who teaches this fall?
The Well Loft Director, Ava Adames will be teaching all three strength classes along with Mat Pilates, Fit Boxing and the recently popular Lyposculpt (a butt and abs intensive). Our resident yoga teacher...Jamila K. Wilson, will continue to head up our Yoga programming and as always we are creatively thinking of ways to bring you adjunct faculty through workshops and special class offerings.

]]><![CDATA[Hot Weather Exercise Safety ]]>Sat, 04 Jun 2011 10:27:24 -0500http://www.thewellloft.com/2/post/2011/06/hot-weather-exercise-safety.htmlHot Weather Exercise Safety Tips for preventing heat stroke, heat exhaution, and dehydration
Written By , About.com Guide

Preventing Heat Related IllnessNormally, our body temperature is regulated by sweating. A number of factors can limit the sweat response, including intense exercise in high temperatures or high humidity, age, obesity, fever, dehydration, illness, medications and alcohol. When an athlete develops a heat illness, it usually occurs after several hours of exertion and excessive sweating that leads, first to to dehydration, and then to electrolyte imbalances. To prevent heat-related illness, follow these precautions:
  • Drink the Right Amount of the Right Fluids
    Finding the right amount of fluid to drink depends upon a variety of individual factors including the length and intensity of exercise and other individual differences. There are, however, two simple methods of estimating adequate hydration.
  • Replace Lost Electrolytes
    Sweat leeches salt and minerals from the body. It's important to maintain sodium and electrolyte levels if you are sweating profusely and exercising more than 90 minutes. The easiest way to replace these are with salty foods or sports drinks.
  • Wear Appropriate Clothing
    Choose lightweight, light-colored, loose-fitting clothing. In the hot sun, a hat and sunscreen is helpful. Wear light, loose-wicking clothing so sweat can evaporate. Better yet, invest in some clothes made with CoolMax®, Drymax®, Smartwool or polypropylene. These fibers have tiny channels that wick the moisture from your skin to the outer layer of the clothing where it can evaporate more easily.
  • Use Sunscreen and Avoid Sunburn
    Sunburn decreases your ability to cool yourself and causes fluid loss. Use sunblock with SPF 15 or higher. Wear a hat that provides shade and allows ventilation.
  • Acclimate to the Heat
    You will have a greater tolerance for exercise in the heat if you become accustomed to it slowly over one to two weeks. If traveling to a hotter climate, allow several days to acclimate before doing intense exercise. Avoid exercise during the hottest time of day; train closer to sunrise or sunset.
  • Use Common Sense
    Avoid hot foods, alcohol and heavy foods that increase your core temperature. If you feel any headaches, fatigue or irritability or notice your exercise performance decreasing, stop exercising and cool off.
Remember, it is easier to prevent heat illness than to treat it once symptoms develop.

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